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Bea Becker
October 7, 1927 - December 16, 2019
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On Monday December 16th, 2019, Bea moved on to join so many of her brothers and friends. She is now safe and pain free, and is undoubtedly playing crib, having lots of laughs with her brothers.
Bea finished life in great style. On Sunday she FaceTimed her brother Bob and headed off to a Christmas gathering where she was surrounded by her family and some very special friends. She held court as usual and reveled in the attention. It was always a challenge to get Bea to leave such events and this one was no different.
Of the many things that were important to Bea, it was family that mattered most. Having seven brothers will do that. The family stories are legend and have a special place in the collective memory; the numerous Fay family reunions can attest to that. Fire pit jumping, hairy bagels (look that one up), Saskatoon Berry pies… the list is endless.
Wherever Bea lived she got involved in the local community. Whether it was volunteering, golf, curling, a book club, bridge or some other activity she dove right in. She gave back to her local community in many ways: Wellness, the Cancer Drive, and most notably as Chair of the South Okanagan General Hospital in Oliver from 1987 to 1997.
Bea was a very social person. She enjoyed being around people and made friends easily and her friendships were enduring. She loved a good laugh but was never afraid to speak her mind and let you know what she thought about something. She could be stubborn and strong-willed at times but those were the very traits that served her well as she dealt with various health issues over the years.
Bea will be deeply missed by her loving soul mate and husband of 65 years Jack; children: Pat (Herb), Bob, Anne (Robert); grandchildren: Brad (Kayla), Melissa (Chris), Kate, Keara; great-grand-daughter Brook.
The family would like to thank the nursing staff at SOGH, Dr Mark Hamilton as well as the local Community Care workers for their care and support over the past several months.
A Celebration of Bea’s life for family and friends will be held Sunday, January 5, 2020 at 1:00 pm at the Osoyoos Golf & Country Club.
In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made in memory of Bea to:
The South Okanagan General Hospital, Oliver
c/o The South Okanagan Similkameen Medical Foundation,
550 Carmi Avenue, Penticton, BC
V2A 3G6
Condolences and tributes may be directed to the family by visiting www.nunes-pottinger.com
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From: Cherie Third
Relation: High school friends of Pat & Herbs.
Bea…you were always a force to be reckoned with. Your generous hospitality when our family would invade your home for Canada Day Celebrations are cherished memories for us and our three children. You will not be forgotten.
From: Diane Fay
Relation: neice
Uncle Bea was a force to be reckoned with, for sure. When I stayed with the family in the late 70’s after moving to the Coast to continue University, it was made abundantly clear who was the person to pay attention to. She had both an iron fist AND a velvet glove, which she would have needed to survive growing up with her wild and crazy brothers. It was a joy and pleasure to see Bea at the reunion this summer and have a chance to visit for a while. I will miss her.
From: Maureen Poucher
Relation: acquaintance
My deepest condolences, Pat, Herb and Jack. It was always fun when Bea was in our golf group. It was my pleasure to know her.
From: Brian Mapplebeck
Relation: We sang together
Hello Jack, I remember her from lab work at SOGH and the Desert Air Singers. She made sure we looked good. All the best to you and your family.
From: william Robinson
Relation: Long-time friend
I am saddened to hear of Bea’s passing. On the other hand, I do know that she had such a wonderful, loving, full life.
For me, I cannot overstate the great caring friendship she and Jack afforded my mother, their neighbour, Isabel Robinson, during the latter part of her life, in the 1970’s and 80’s. They were always there for her; she felt so much at ease knowing they were readily available to help, no matter what the issue. Jack, hosting Mom’s memorial meant a lot to us. Such wonderful neighbours; very special people.
We will always remember their sharing of the swimming pool in the summer holidays with me and my two daughters Nicole and Michelle. Interesting enough, in recent years Michelle became Bea’s Rheumatologist in Penticton.
And Ann playing Easter bunny for the girls; something we well remember today.
In closing, our condolences go out to Jack and her wonderful family. it has been an honour for me knowing Bea, and Jack. I will certainly not forget them, and their kindness.
Bill Robinson
From: Marilyn Robinson
Relation: neighbor
Me and my brothers (Bill and David) will always be grateful for the love and friendship Bea and Jack offered our mother Isabel Robinson. Bea was a lovely lady and I know will be missed.
Service Schedule
Celebration of Life
Date & Time:
January 5, 2020
Beginning at 1:00pm
Location:
Osoyoos Golf Club
12300 Golf Course Drive
Osoyoos, BC Canada
A celebration of life will be held at 1:00 pm, Sunday January 5, 2020 at the Osoyoos Golf Club, 12300 Golf Course Drive, Osoyoos, BC
12300 Golf Course Drive
Osoyoos, BC Canada
Memorial Gifts
The South Okanagan General Hospital, Oliver
c/o The South Okanagan Similkameen Medical Foundation,
550 Carmi Avenue, Penticton, BC
V2A 3G6
Thank You Notice
The family would like to thank the nursing staff at SOGH, Dr Mark Hamilton as well as the local Community Care workers for their care and support over the past several months.
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6049 Main Street, Oliver, BC
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Local: (250) 498-0088 Toll free: (844) 498-0088
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5859 Main Street, Oliver, BC
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Gems and Stems at Eastside
6496 Park Drive, Oliver, BC
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(250) 826-0438
Polka Dot Door Floral Design Boutique
8522 Main Street, Osoyoos, BC
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(250) 495-2226
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